I’m screwed

13 10 2008

 

There’s only so long you can work part time doing very menial tasks and I can’t see my travel plans happening any time soon so I need to find a proper job. Only problem is I can’t even write a GD resume. I don’t even have the confidence to write anything nice about myself and it’s not like I have a lot to put on there apart from my degree and some admin work at my parent’s business. I have no volunteer work or any other proper work experience and I really shouldn’t have picked marketing as a major either. All the marketing jobs ask for ”excellent verbal and written communication skills” – I stuttered just making a presentation to my tutorial classes of 10 and my grammar sux too.

Sigh – maybe I should look as some different types of jobs? I have an international business major too – does anyone know about any jobs that can lead to?





OMG I need to move

10 10 2008

 

There are two types of animals that absolutely terrify me: crocodiles and sharks. On my last visit to Northern Queensland I remember feeling a shiver go down my spine as the plane landed and I thought to myself, ’we’re in crocodile land’ . It’s a bit crazy as it’s not like I’m gonna go swimming in those mud coloured lakes and creeks that crocs like to hang out in, but I guess since I spent 3 months in Darwin as a 5 year old I’ve had an irrational fear of them. That jumping crocodile cruise probably wasn’t a good idea, neither were those stories of narrow escapes or missing fisherman.

I’m also terrified of sharks – I still enjoy going in to ocean but I can’t swim in the lake anymore. Once you see them you’ve got nowhere to go, it’s not as though you can out swim them and being torn apart in the water doesn’t exactly sound like a good way to go. I just wish the man eating ones didn’t exist so fear would stop getting in the way of me having fun and enjoying life to the fullest.

So when I was a little girl there was no boogey man under the bed – there were crocs and snakes. Those were the things that I had nightmares about (ok I kinda still have nightmares about the crocs) but I thought I’d gotten over the fear of snakes. If you spot a poisonous snake it’s not the end, you can simply run away. It’s probably just as scared as you as you are of it and even if you do get bitten it’s not exactly a death sentence (as long as medical care is nearby anyway). I haven’t seen very many in the wild (they usually flee when the feel the vibrations caused by human feet) so why be worried? It’s not as though we have those nausea inducing giants like those in Africa….. - or do we? I naively believed that all Australian snakes were small – but then Joders had to go and post this. WTF?! I decided to do a little research and found that not only do these creatures I once thought only existed in horror films exist down here but they also devour loved ones as well. Needless to say I have given up all plans on moving to northern Queensland and am heading to Hawaii instead.

So Joders thank you for giving me something else to have nightmares about. What breed was that beast? - please tell they don’t exist anywhere near our state.

Stuff getting a real job – I’m heading overseas and away from these monsters – anyone need a housemate?





Thought I’d join in on the fun

25 09 2008

Gone on a blind date? No, sounds awkward.

Skipped school? Yes but only a few classes and never a whole day

Watched someone die? No and very much hope I never do

Been to Europe? No :(

 

Been to USA? Nup

Been on a plane ?Yes

Been lost? Yep, me and mum got lost in the bush not long ago. Our 1 hour walk turned into a 3 hr one when we tried to take a shortcut.

 

Been on the opposite side of the country? Nup have been to the top and the bottom but never the other side.

Been to Washington? No.

 

Swam in the ocean? Yes, of course – it’s one of the places I’m happiest (as long as it’s warm enough)

Cried yourself to sleep? Yep, haven’t we all?

Played cops and robbers? Probably as a kid

 

Recently coloured with crayons? No

Sang Karaoke? Yep

Paid for a meal with coins only? Plenty of times if I’m grabbing a sandwich or fast food (In Australia $1 and $2 only come in coins, bills start at $5)

Done something you told yourself you would not do? Probs

Made prank phone calls? Yes – it made for some fun times as a kid. One time me and a friend decided to see if anyone had the phone number 000 000 – whoops.

Laughed until some kind of beverage came out of your nose? No

Caught a snowflake on your tongue? Yes when at the snow – I also made a snowcone off the car (gross).

Danced in the rain? Not sure

Written a letter to Santa Claus? No

Been kissed under the mistletoe? No

Watched the sunrise with someone you care about? Probably

Blown bubbles? Yep

Gone ice-skating? Yes – the local shopping mall had an ice skating rink when I was a kid – good times.

Been skinny dipping outdoors?Sure have – BTW you have lived if you haven’t taken a night time nudie dip in the waves with your mates.

Gone to the movies? Yes

Got a speeding ticket? Nup





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12 09 2008

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Bringing people over to your side

8 09 2008

I like to debate things – it fires me up, makes me feel alive. In high school I even found myself arguing both sides of the abortion debate (depending on which stance the other person took), I guess I was neutral on the subject and a little angry about how each side could be so ignorant of the other. One thing I have learnt is that if you feel strongly about a subject and another person takes the opposite view it is dam near impossible to bring them over to your side (and vice versa) no matter how rational your argument is. I remember trying to explain the basics of evolution to a religious girl in my chemistry class – it just wasn’t going to work. That’s why I was very interested in learning the scientific explanation for ‘confirmation bias’ in this article. Here’s a few snippets:

“I have found at least something to like about each Republican or Democrat I have met. I have close friends in both camps, in which I have observed the following: no matter the issue under discussion, both sides are equally convinced that the evidence overwhelmingly supports their position. “

“This surety is called the confirmation bias, whereby we seek and find confirmatory evidence in support of already existing beliefs and ignore or reinterpret disconfirmatory evidence. Now a functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI) study shows where in the brain the confirmation bias arises and how it is unconscious and driven by emotions.”

“During the run-up to the 2004 presidential election, while undergoing an fMRI bran scan, 30 men–half self-described as “strong” Republicans and half as “strong” Democrats–were tasked with assessing statements by both George W. Bush and John Kerry in which the candidates clearly contradicted themselves. Not surprisingly, in their assessments Republican subjects were as critical of Kerry as Democratic subjects were of Bush, yet both let their own candidate off the hook. “

“The neuroimaging results, however, revealed that the part of the brain most associated with reasoning–the dorsolateral prefrontal cortex–was quiescent. Most active were the orbital frontal cortex, which is involved in the processing of emotions; the anterior cingulate, which is associated with conflict resolution; the posterior cingulate, which is concerned with making judgments about moral accountability; and–once subjects had arrived at a conclusion that made them emotionally comfortable–the ventral striatum, which is related to reward and pleasure.”

“Essentially, it appears as if partisans twirl the cognitive kaleidoscope until they get the conclusions they want, and then they get massively reinforced for it, with the elimination of negative emotional states and activation of positive ones,”

I decided to link this article now because I find it interesting that I see this happening in the media today (even on your blogs) – Once a candidate is chosen positive information is sought out on that person whilst negative information is emphasised regarding the others. It’s also very interesting the immense support the conservative part of the nation is now giving a female politician whose unwed teen is carrying a baby. I could only imagine the the judgements these people would be making if Obama had chosen a woman in the same position to be his VP.

So how do we go about making people see reason if they are simply going to twist every piece of information in order to support their current beliefs? especially if those beliefs were taught during their young formative years when they didn’t yet have the ability to reason themselves? It’s not as though we can storm catholic schools handing out biology textbooks and pamphlets about contraception.

All I can think of is to try and take a neutral approach - listen to their evidence and put yourself in their shoes. If you can agree on some points and find a common ground then they are more likely to consider your own views in an unbiased manner. Argue your point too forcefully and defences will be up, they won’t even begin to see your point of view. Lastly, the most important thing to remember is to refrain from making personal insults (I see this happen all the time on youtube and ONTD). Not only does it make people angry but it makes you appear as though you have run out of valid points and are feeling defeated.

I can’t say I’m that great at winning arguments, but then again I don’t always follow my own advice (I get fired up easily) – does anyone else have any tips for successful arguments?





Charmed

7 09 2008

There has been a bit of a charm craze lately with the Pandora bracelets. Joders recently mentioned that she preferred the Thomas Sabo charms and I do too. I’ve seen them in magazines for some time and recently when buying a Pandora charm for my sister I spotted them in the jewellery store and picked up a catalogue. I think they’re cute and I’ve been wondering whether or not to treat myself. They are just so GD expensive for a little piece of silver so I probably won’t right now. Here are some of my favourites – the last 3 are carriers (which slide onto a necklace).





I am totes an idiot

6 09 2008

There is a hurricane outside – ok not really, but it’s been raining with powerful winds for a few days. The power went out a few hours ago which sucked. We lit some candles and I used about 5 fire lighters to set fire to a log. I found a few small logs out in the garage and soon made us a roaring fire of which I could be proud. Of course the power came back on soon after. Our attention soon turned to computers/TV/books etc and it took us some time to realise the room was filled with smoke. On top of our burning fire was a burning teatowel along with assorted other items we hadn’t taken off the fireplace – this included some plastic which is creating a nice toxic atmosphere around the place.

Thank you for listening to my story of idiocy.





Craziness on the internetz

4 09 2008

When recently Daners posted a link to a nutjob website it made me think of one I stumbled upon quite some time ago. I think I was in year 10 and a typo meant I accidently typed ‘heathy diet’ into google. I found this. Now, I’m all for massive blow out binges but I’d much prefer to fast for a week than put away one of those meals. I’m pretty sure you’d die if you attempted to consume that much in a day so I checked out the rest of the site to see if it was a joke - it is . Check out the Kids Korner - It’s all a bit OTT but it’s still kinda funny.





It was a spinal stroke

28 08 2008

I will create a little rehab room for her and we’ll nurse her back to health. I’m not sure if she’ll completely recover or how long it will take but thankfully my worst fears weren’t confirmed. The vet says we might be able to take her home on the weekend and that she has improved a tad (may be able to us the bathroom on her own). She seems awfully frustrated about her limited mobility so maybe a doggie wheelchair will come in handy. I know she’ll be a lot happier to be home.





Waiting & Hoping

28 08 2008